We all make mistakes when it comes to relationships. It’s important that we continue to grow as individuals and as partners. It’s even better when we learn from our past mistakes and let them help us better our relationships. When a couple breaks up both partners are usually to blame.
But sometimes there are lessons we never learn. Here are 3 common relationship mistakes most men make:
1. They become cold and distant
This often happens in a relationship. Because society teaches men to mostly hide their emotions and vulnerability, they’ve come to associate warmth with weakness. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
Showing her how they really feel about her and giving her all the affection they have does not make them weak.
Vulnerable, yes. But this only allows us to connect with our partner on a deeper level: by giving them our all. Distancing yourself will only make her walk away from you.
2. They’re lying
This kind of behavior can seriously affect any relationship, no matter how well two people get along in other areas. One single lie can break her trust and mutual trust is absolutely the foundation of any healthy relationship. Being truthful and devoted to her will inspire her to do the same.
3. They’re taking you for granted
This is one of the worst things that can be done to someone. When they stop seeing her worth and appreciating her for what she is, they have wrecked the relationship. Remember when they used to try and conquer her with compliments and gifts?
If they’ve showered her with great things in the beginning and now barely look her in the eyes or say “thank you”, perhaps it’s time to reconsider the relationship.