A healthy relationship is built on trust. When you’ve found someone with whom you feel in sync, you feel light and relaxed. Here are some things you never worry about because you know you stand on solid ground when it comes to your partner.
1. You don’t need to know where your partner is every single second
Because you know that being in constant contact with them and needing to know every single detail of their daily routine is actually an attempt to control them, you keep your suspicion in check.
2. There’s no problem if they don’t answer your text immediately
When you call or text them and they don’t respond right away you figure that they must be busy. Your mind doesn’t immediately go to the worst scenario possible. A missed call doesn’t mean that they’re having an affair.
3. You don’t care who wins the argument
When you fight, you don’t turn it into a competition. You are interested in solving the issue and not having the upper hand. You know that seeing things differently and having different opinions is inevitable and could also be a chance for you to reconsider your position or learn something new.
4. You are not scared about letting your guard down
In a healthy relationship, you can be your genuine self. You don’t need to pretend that you are perfect or create a mask to hide your true feelings. You can yell or cry and you feel that they will still love you.
5. You don’t feel the need to spy on them
Even when your insecurities are showing their ugly head, you don’t consider reading their emails or breaking into their phone. If you have any doubts, you just confront them and not resort to snooping.
If you have somebody in your life who inspires you to be relaxed and trusting, you are in luck. Honor your relationship and keep it strong!