There is great suffering in staying where you are, if the situation makes you miserable. How many times have we put up with someone or something for too long, hoping things would change?
The reasons we do it are plenty, but it’s mostly because although it makes us unhappy, we are familiar with that situation. Cutting ties then may seem radical, new, scary. Walking away from such a situation demands a great deal of courage.
Be the woman who will stop enabling people, who will learn that it’s really ok to say “no” from time to time. Especially to people who’ve stepped all over you in the past. It can happen to the best of us.
Be the woman who will not put up with a toxic family member anymore just because you are related.
As hard as it is to walk away, it’s infinitely harder to stay and absorb all the drama and toxicity around them.
Find the courage to walk away from a relationship that no longer brings the best in you. Maybe they got you caught up in an addictive and dangerous game. Whatever it is, know you can overcome this problem once you decide you’ve had enough.
Be the woman who stands up for herself because she knows she has a lot to offer, if only she got away from people that bring her down. If you feel you don’t get the respect and appreciation you need, leave them behind and focus on improving yourself. It’s the only thing you really have control over.
Make sure you let others know there are boundaries and crossing them will have consequences. Don’t let anyone belittle or take credit for your achievements, you are worth a lot more.
Be this brave woman and the right people will come into your life. Have no doubt.